STopmen Mutual Aid  #STMA FAQ :  


How does STopmen Mutual Aid (STMA) work?  


STopmen Mutual Aid is a collection of one-of-kind, hand-printed works. 200 items and looks are released at the beginning of each month. 

100% of sales go to: 

  1. A monthly honoree who is in need of support that we introduce to you via the @we_will_all_be_well IG

  2. An employed person surviving in this capitalist system who manages the webshop and ships items 

  3. Reimbursing basic production and material costs

How can I promote STopmen Mutual Aid?  

Stopmen clothes are meant to be performative, assertive and or non-engaging STOPMEN is a no nonsense street wear. DM us if you have anything to say about the subject, we love posting other people's words and experiences wearing Stopmen. Send pics and tag us @we_will_all_be_well, use #STOPMEN #STOPMENMUTUALAID, and tell friends.



Stop Men supports the reselling of all Stop Men clothes, cutting up any Stop Men pieces, wearing them

backwards or upside down, turning a sweatshirt or T-shirt into a crop top, creating new pieces

from Stop Men clothes in any way possible. Stop Men supports anyone who wants to speak

about or create with StopMen, feel free to use the phrase, we don't own words. We do ask,

if possible, to refrain from stating what Stop Men IS, please don't define Stop men beyond

what it means to you. We will not police anyone on this subject, we don't have the time or

interest to do that. Please de-center us as Stopmen and instead create your own Stopmen world.

We are very serious in our intentions and have many interviews and statements searchable on

the web. Antics, performances, creative statements, memes, we invite and support anyone

to play with Stop Men and what it means to you. While doing so, please be conscious and intentional

with the space you are taking up. 





How much do I pay ? How does pricing work ?  

There two categories of payment: 


  1.   STMA Recipient  

  2.   Everyone Else     

 1.  You are an STopmen Mutual Aid Recipient if you can check THREE or more boxes below:  

 (  )  Black

 (  )  Indigenous

 (  )  Non-binary 

 (  )  Trans

 (  )  Queer

 (  )  Broke

 (  )  Disabled / Differently abled 

 (  )  Women 

 (  )  Poor

 (  )  Undocumented 

 (  )  Faces Body Discrimination


STMA RECIPIENTS receive 50% off all orders above $40  

 Minimum order is $40 -- thats 2 items or 1 look for $40, we can't ship for $20 

 Use discount code: STOPMENLOVESYOU at checkout  


Our goal is to get clothes to people, be supportive to people we love, create a public

conversation, create power in unity, help create a greater network of support and identification

between one another, and end all male leadership. Please use your discount code, please donate 

what you can in the shipping fee at checkout, and if you're feeling the support please

help promote by taking evil, sincere, goth, super cool photos

and tagging us on all forms of media. THANK YOU!!


Once a Month STOPMEN gives out $100 to the best Photo of The Month Contest!!

Send your photo to lise, by dm-ing @we_wil_all_be_well or post photos to



  2. Everyone else 

If you are not a STMA Recipient, pricing is as follows: 

 $40 per item

 $60 Looks 

 $80 Looks 

 $120 Looks


Buying Books and Magazines helps out for sure! 

 $40 book plus 25 stickers

 $40 magazine plus 25 stickers

 $40 twin mini books plus 25 stickers

 $60 monthly art poster 1/18 plus 25 stickers

 $10 fabric swatch   


How does the shipping donation work? 

Donations/Shipping fees

 In an effort to make prices as low as possible, the choice of the amount of shipping you pay goes

directly to the Honoree!  If you choose to pay $100 in shipping $100 goes directly to the Honoree.

We suggest a minimum of $20 in shipping. Free is an option, its on the Honor system, we're happy to

ship out single items for $40. Tips us thru your donations to the Honoree. Show your appreciation 

for the work and the art thru your donation/shipping fees that all go to the Honoree. please pay

what you can in shipping.


 ALL cis white men and men of means must pay $120 shipping to receive these clothes. We

appreciate you &  your support, this $120 shipping cost is required ! $120 for shipping is required 

IF you can not check  Two Boxes Above in the STMA RECIPIENT field, it means you're a super

supporter. Thank you we encourage people to ask and clarify if any wearer of Stopmen did in fact

pay there $120 if it seems appropriate and if you feel like it.  


Shipping donations are direct to the Honoree The shipping/donation choices are: 

Donation to Honoree $500: OH SNAP a Big Fish is on the line!!! You're doing big things for the community Thank You!

Donation to Honoree $250: Life is good! Showing out for the people. Thank You!

Donation to Honoree $100 : Life is good! Thank You, appreciate you!

Donation to Honoree $80 : It goes alonnng way, Thank You!

Donation to Honoree $60 : Showing support where its needed and we appreciate you! <3 Thank You!

Donation to Honoree $40 : You're an Angel, Thank You!  

STMA SUPPORTER MINIMUM $20 : The minimum (This is important for us to reach are goals to the Honoree) Thank You we appreciate you!


STMA Recipient Free shipping : No Donation. 

  How do I know if my order has shipped?  

You will get an email confirmation when your order is on the way. Please use the tracking that will be sent with your confirmation to monitor your package. We mail out clothes every Tuesday. 

  How long does shipping take?  

All items are shipped via USPS Priority Mail. After your order is received and packaged, it is shipped and usually arrives within 2-4 business days (1-3 days in the Bay Area). Please keep in mind that since we ship on Tuesday, your items will not ship out until the Tuesday after your order. 

  What if the clothing I ordered doesn't fit?  

Check all measurements carefully before ordering. Measure similar garments you own to ensure it will fit. Make sure you love the piece you buy and that if it doesn't work for you, you are happy to pass it on to a friend or donate. Because this a mutual aid program and each item is one of a kind, we do not do exchanges, returns, or refunds. Once you buy it you buy it!  Thank you for you understanding and taking a risk.

  What if don't get my package?   

 We can not be responsible for lost or stolen packages. Please monitor the tracking number you receive to get your package as soon as its been delivered, especially if its delivered to an unsecured area, to ensure it is not picked up by someone else. Because every order is shipped via USPS Priority, it has $50 insurance built in. Please follow up with USPS to track a lost package, get insurance, or find out more. 

 Can I send you my own clothes to print ?

We aren't set up to take commission requests so we evaluate them on the basis of the project. If you have an everyday item you want STOPMEN on, you can DIY it, there are Stopmen fabric swatches in the shop. All serious commission requests are evaluated on the basis of size, scope, price, and purpose, please email We love printing special gear for bands, special occasions, wild projects and instances of unique and needed support. If you would like to use Stopmen clothes for your project or event, write to us, describe it and let us know what you're looking for. 

 How do I get in touch with you to ask a question or tell you something? 


 We generally don’t answer questions or write back. This FAQ page answers common questions. We do read all emails. Send a message to and we will write back if it requires a response.  

Thank you!